What’s in YOUR Relationship Healing Toolbox?
Are your current relationships pleasing and satisfying?
Could your most intimate relationship use some healing?
Do many of your other relationships require healing too?
Love makes the world go ’round.
When we love others and feel loved in return, we are uplifted, inspired and happy. But when the love we desire is denied, when we feel betrayed, rejected, disappointed or even bored, our mood may plummet toward sadness and depression or escalate into anger and rage.
When love seems to be missing from our life yet others appear to be filled with love and surrounded by love, we may feel jealous and inferior. We may wonder why we cannot seem to get and keep the love that others naturally enjoy.
Why do some people thrive in relationships while others struggle with great difficulty? There is a simple answer. Those who create successful relationships tend to have a relationship healing style that works while those who have great difficulty are probably missing a few of the skills, attitudes and tools needed for success.
9 Handy Tools for Your Relationship Healing Toolbox
1. Choice Calculator
Do you have a system for choosing the people you accept into your life? And do you have a consistent way to eliminate those who are not aligned with your life goals?
2. Truth Detector
Are you in contact with your own inner guide? Are you able to use your intuition and intellect to decipher the truth in your communications with significant others?
3. Emotional Diffuser
Do you have a concrete and proven way to label and express your emotions, in the moment, without interpretation or emotional charge? And do you have a way to gently assist others to clarify and diffuse their unbalanced emotions?
4. Response Reframer
Are you able to recognize your automatic responses and to instantly find a more productive way to respond and handle the situation?
5. Body Language Decorder
Can you easily recognize the emotions and attitudes revealed by your own and another person’s body language?
6. Listening Aid
Are you able to listen beyond the words, to hear the words not being said, and to understand the meaning of what you are hearing from a more comprehensive perspective?
7. Communication Charm
Are you able to influence the other person, soothe their fears and doubts and encourage the best outcome for all involved?
8. Love Meter
How do you measure your moment to moment love actions and their immediate as well as long term effects?
9. Love Boomerang
Are you willing to give love, even when it does not seem appreciated or reciprocated, trusting that love is already returning to you, but possibly from a different person or another direction?
Build Your Relationship Healing Toolbox
P.S. Add Meditation to Your Relationship Healing Toolbox