Loving is Our Most Natural State.
Observe any baby smiling, cooing and giggling with delight at mommy, daddy and strangers. Most animals are also naturally loving to members of their own species – and often that affection extends to other species and to humans. Even ferocious lions and tigers have been known to “love” the humans who nurtured them since infancy.
Animals love easily and effortlessly and will aggressively defend the ones they love. Humans, on the other hand, often develop convoluted love. They may feel love at moments and then allow their thoughts and emotions to interfere with and block that love. Their behavior may appear to be exactly the opposite of love, but if asked about it they may say with confidence “I love him” or “I love her.”
The A,B,C’s of love are simple, logical and natural ways of being – if we allow ourselves the freedom to love.
The Art of Love
We begin with the ART OF LOVE, the creative process through which we learn to accept our self and others. Love is an all or none phenomenon. When we love, nothing else exists. It is not an accident that the word for love begins with the first letter of the alphabet in French “amour” and in Spanish “amar”. Love is the root of life and needs to be attended to, nurtured and practiced. The activity of love bring out our aliveness, alleviates our pain and suffering and armors us with the strength to overcome obstacles. Love requires autonomy, self-knowledge and self-acceptance.
Believe in Love
We BELIEVE IN LOVE, knowing we belong from the time we are a baby. Relationships become a bridge to bringing and building better and more brilliant love. if we treat love like a business, we pay attention to our customers and make every effort to service their needs, without neglecting our own. We behave in ways that bring joy and blessings to all involved. Our love is big and broad, encompassing all of humanity and all of God’s creations.
Choose to Create Love
We CHOOSE TO CREATE LOVE with the certainty that it is possible and the clarity that our love matters. Knowing the cause and effect of loving or witholding love, we communicate caring, concern and a willingness to collaborate with others. Our love remains constant and continues despite the difficulties we encounter in any circumstance. We use caution with our words and actions, confront our self before confronting anyone else, and provide a sense of safety, acceptance and appreciation in our interactions with others.
Imagine if everyone followed these simple A,B,C’s of Love? How much easier and happier would your life be? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and feelings below. And feel free to add some additions to the simple A,B,C’s.
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