What Do YOU Believe About Men?
- Men only value power, success and money
- Men don’t communicate and share their feelings
- Men are only interested in sex without intimacy
- Men are only attracted to looks and outer beauty
- Men are afraid of closeness and commitment
- Men are intimidated by powerful and smart women
How Do YOU Define and Describe Masculine?
- Men are naturally macho and controlling
- Real men are strong, powerful and fearless
- Real men don’t cry, crying is for sissies
- Men must be the provider for the family
- Men are athletic and interested in sports
- Men are good in mathematics and science
- Men are simple and easy to understand
WHAT IF EVERYTHING YOU BELIEVE IS A MYTH?
WHAT IF MEN ARE REALLY COMPLEX AND DIVERSE?
We can pick up almost any magazine to learn about women: what they want, what they desire, what they need, how they should act and behave, how they can find live and create lasting love, etc., etc. But to understand men, we probably focus on business journals, sports news, financial and fitness magazines. Rarely do we see a headline for men asking: “How can I find love?” or “What can I do to be more attractive to women (or to other men)?”
The time has come to remove the blinders, hear the truth and finally begin to allow men to express their authentic, true self. Each man has a unique fingerprint, unique genetics, a unique upbringing and a unique philosophy and approach to life and love. But so many men have been kept locked up inside as they attempt to navigate the world as a male. This suppression of the male species starts at a very, very young age. Whereas a young girl might be cuddled and hugged, a boy is often taught to be tough, to wrestle and play roughhouse.
How Would A Man Be If He Could Naturally Just Be Himself?
After speaking on about 15 love and relationship virtual summits, all about women – what they want and need and desire, how to improve their chances for love, how to “catch” their soulmate, how to “get their man to love them” – I decided it is time to introduce the world to the 21st century MAN. In this era, more than any time in history, men have an opportunity to shine a lot on their underlying natures, their true essence of being, who they really are – and – who they would like to be if the world around them would be accepting.
Has Your Curiosity Been Piqued?
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Learn How Men Love and What They Really Want
Speakers, Authors, Therapists, and MD’s Tell All
I have brought together 32 of the leading authors, therapists, coaches, entrepreneurs, physicians, speakers, trainers and leaders, all talking about men. And each speaker has a unique perspective, all bringing awareness to the great diversity that exists in this half of our population. Men are not all alike. In fact, there is often more similarity between men and women than there is between different men.
32 Speakers include:
- Men are From Mars’ Dr. John Gray
- Soulmate Guru Arielle Ford
- The Queen’s Code’s Alison Armstrong
- Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior’s Doug Braun-Harvey
- The Celebrity Therapist Dr. Lisa Palmer
- Holosync Creator Bill Harris
- Modern Sexuality’s Dr. Michael Aaron
- A Friendly Divorce Mediator Dr. Elinor Robin
- Imago Therapist Dr. Laura Zipris
- Creator of Sex Coach University Dr. Patti Britton
- Male Surrogate for Males Andrés Cordero
- Male Surrogate for Females Phil Strapp
- Plastic Surgeon turned Entrepreneur George Huang, MD
- Prominent Attorney and wife turned Relationship Trainers Adam and Randi Markel
- Emotionally Focused Therapist and Discernment Counselor Marni Feuerman
- Sexual Physiology Scientist Dr. Nicole Prause
and so many more delightful speakers who will turn your mind inside out about men – who they really are, what they really want and what they really need to thrive in this world.
JOIN THE FREE MEN AND LOVE SERIES
Contact Me to understand your man or understand yourself.
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Let this be YOUR TIME TO CREATE LOVE AND PASSION AND INTIMACY
With love and caring,
Dr. Erica Goodstone
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Hi Erica
I must commend you for this project and say more kudos to your elbow.
I for one believe that gender roles has caused a lot of myths and misconceptions that have provided a strange structure for men and women.
These myths have made men stuff a lot of their feelings inside in order not to feel awkward in a society that promotes Staus quo.
It is great that your project will open people to the truth. I wish I could be able to attend.
Hi Ikechi,
Thanks for your supportive words. Yes, it was a delight for me to speak with all these enlightened speakers about Men and Love.
This event is easy to attend. You just give your name and email and it is FREE. Each day, for 16 days, you can watch the 2 interviews for that day, live for over 24 hours. and then at the end there will be 2 full free days when you can catch up on any you missed. So even if you just want to watch a few of the interviews, you can do that.
Dr. Erica
Hi Erica. I believe that men are men and men are people. As men, they are bigger, stronger, think more about sex, and more inner focused than women. As people, they are all different.
I think the saddest thing about men right now is that they are being marginalized. Look at how they are portrayed in commercials – as stupid, incompetent people who can’t figure out how to set up a car seat.
Starting with the ‘feminist’ movement, there has been a concentrated effort to make men more like women. Wrong. Men are not and shouldn’t be encouraged to be women.
Men need to be encouraged to be manly – love their wives and children, protect their families and be godly. Manliness isn’t about being a bully or running out on responsibilities. I feel lucky to know lots of manly men.
Thanks for sharing this topic.
DeeDee,
You have a beautiful perspective about men and men need to find women like you who value them and want them to shine. On another note, after posting about the Men and Love Series on social media a lady responded by saying “Who gives a hoot?” and another lady echoed that statement with a wholehearted agreement. I felt a twinge of sadness for those 2 ladies. How bitter they must feel? Their relationships with men have obviously been problematic and unfulfilling. So much happens when we feel love and so little happens when we express such negativity.
Thanks for your beautiful thoughts about men.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
i complety read ur post … u shared much more knowledge about love and raelity of men..Thanks for putting it all together!
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Men are often not understood. Many don’t even understand themselves. So the more we can all understand about each other, the better off our entire society will be.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
This sounds like an ambitious project. I think it’s important to really know the truth about one another and not believe the stereotypes or myths. Thank you for all your time and effort!
Karen,
Yes, this is quite an ambitious project but so satisfying to interview such high quality speakers.
And yes, we have to let go of our automatic stereotypes that cause men, and women, to be pidgeon-holed and squealched rather than being able to express their full aliveness in their own unique ways.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
Hi Dr Erica,
You are doing a great job. Keep it.
Thanks Taiwo,
This project has certainly been a labor of love. Not easy to coordinate 32 people and have all the pieces working correctly.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
I think it’s very easy to generalise and it’s great to break the myths and learn the truth!
Enjoy the journey!
Mandy,
Yes, there is so much to really understand about any topic or any person. For this series, the topic is men. For my next series, it will be about addictions. And at some point I will focus on marketing. So much fun to speak with educated people who are experts on the given topic.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
This sounds like a great event, with some really interesting topics. Thanks for putting it all together!
Ruth,
Thanks for stopping by. I had such fun speaking with each of the 31 speakers and then one of the speakers actually interviewed me for the series. So many different areas of specialty and different perspectives. It is truly enlightening.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica